Fantasy and reality, when it boils down to trust

ShadowLady and I have indeed shared many conversations over the years, both online and in person. In reading this blog post, I’m struck once again by how well she balances her life.


A conversation today with QueenBee made me think about something again. What and who is real on the internet. What and who can we trust and when does reality with embellishment cross the line to fantasy? What brought this musing on?

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What a lady does and does not want

Recently there was a wonderful thread on She Makes The Rules (SMTR) A list from females to males. What we as a female want from an FLR. For once not the other way around.

We came up with this delightful list and have decided that even more can be added!  I’ve taken it down temporarily.  Pop over to ShadowLady’s blog at to see the original list.

More on this discussion can be found She Makes The Rules (SMTR). The link to the discussion can be found in our forum under ‘The Best of SMTR’ where we’ve listed our favorite discussions. They’re well worth the read!